WHERE DO WE STAND?

Looks like I have started my blog like Carrie Bradshaw from sex and the city – Where do we stand? Huh! I guess it would be more appropriate if I can write or express my feelings just like her.

I mean, look at us, women.

Earlier, we were not allowed to go out of our house, not to meet men, not to study, not to work and not anything but to be a factory machine (giving birth to children).

Many great minds fought for our freedom. The freedom we currently have.

The next question is, DO WE REALLY HAVE FREEDOM? Or ARE WE MISUSING IT?

If we really have freedom, why are there those masked animals (ref. my previous blog) still alive or left behind? Why do we still have to worry going out alone in late nights?

If we are misusing it, does it mean that we should be home thinking what might happen to us if we are alone and hence go out with our husband/brother/father/least, a boy friend.

In that case, AREN’T WE BACKING TO SQUARE ONE, Depended, Scared and Unsecured?

On the other hand, I really worry  IF WE TRULY UNDERSTAND THE MEANING OF FREEDOM?

If, the only meaning we take for Freedom is wearing revealing cloths, talking about individuality, not leading a healthy relationship with husband, getting divorced, having multiple sex partners, smoking and boozing. WILL WE PREFFER A LIFE BACK IN THE 18th CENTURY?

Or, IS THERE ANY GOOD LEFT FOR THE FUTURE?

There are still few souls who care about their tradition, their culture and their purity. Who think internal purity is much important than the external.

Unfortunately, only these women fall prey for those animals.

Should I conclude saying that, WE ARE CURSED?

                                        (Or)

 Should I wish for a PROPER FREEDOM and EQUAL RITES?

( a +1 in my wish list)

As I always quote, the emotional, sexual, and psychological, stereotyping of females begins when the doctor says, “It’s a girl.”

ALL I WANT IS EVERY THING

Here is my wish list, out of which some have happened already, many are yet to happen. And few that can never happen.

1. To get dressed in all possible costumes in the world like a Christian bride, a pirate, a cow boy, an Oscar winning actor, a proper English women, a Japanese etc.

2. To go on a world tour.

3. To live in a Paradise.

4. To build my dream Home and developing it in my style.

5. To complete & publish my Novel I started and take it as a movie.

6. To build a Home for the needy.

7. To make my child work for the country as a military Doctor. Note: I want 2 children minimum :-) one for me and one for the country. I know I am not generous enough.

8. To be the best mom.

9. To have a friend – mate of my life who can do anything for me and vice versa just the way they show in movies.

10. To lead a consequence free life.

11. To see God.

12. To go on a limo sitting in the back seat and walk through the red carpet.

13. To drive a Ferrari all by myself crazily.

14. To be a leading Nutritionist.

15. To be Dr. Saranya, Ph.D.

16. To get back my child hood with my other 2 sisters and parents and complete everything that ware left incomplete.

17. To be CHARMED (the serial) so that I can bring back my grandparents to bless my kid(s).

18. To not to worry about anything.

19. To speak up my mind.

20. To learn swimming and swim across a peaceful river or near water fall.

21. To do bungee.

22. To go on a hot balloon.

23. To do Scuba diving in the Atlantic.

24. To go on an exotic candle light dinner.

25. To eat all possible vegetarian food from a starter to desserts.

26. To have a pet. Preferably a Dog.

27. To live alone for a while on my own in my apartment and work for my will.

28. To be loved madly.

29. To fall in love selflessly, unconditionally and irrevocably.

30. To live in White House.

31. To get my hair done in various styles.

32. To get tattooed.

33. To be envied.

34. To be missed.

35. To be everything for someone special.

36. To get a portrait of myself.

37. To write my blogs regularly.

38. To be myself and be accepted

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∞ I WISH MY WISH COME TRUE.